A strong referral network isn’t just about bringing in more guests, it’s about creating a steady, reliable stream of highly qualified buyers who are already primed for a great experience. That’s why nurturing your referral relationships might just be the most important marketing effort you undertake.
Your network of hotels, wineries, transport companies, restaurants, and local businesses thrives on trust, reciprocity, and personal connection. The key is not just being known but being remembered. When someone refers guests to your winery, they are putting their own reputation on the line. Your job is to make sure they feel confident that you’ll deliver an experience that reflects well on them.
It’s All About Relationships
A referral isn’t just a transaction – it’s a relationship that needs to be nurtured over time. This means:
- Getting out into the community, meeting your peers face-to-face, and truly understanding their business.
- Learning what they offer and how your winery experience can complement that.
- Ensuring they know exactly what makes your winery special so they can confidently send guests your way.
For many wineries, this role is so critical that they create dedicated “Ambassador” positions – people whose sole job is to build, manage, and strengthen these referral relationships. But whether you have a team or are doing it yourself, the approach is the same: be present, be valuable, and make it personal.
Make It Personal, Make It Count
The best relationships are built on genuine connection and personalization makes all the difference. If someone is consistently sending visitors your way, you should know:
- What do they love? Do they have a favorite varietal? A favorite winery they visit themselves?
- What matters to them? Did they just celebrate a milestone, open a new restaurant, or welcome a new family member?
- How can you make them feel valued?
A simple thank-you gift should never feel generic. Instead of just dropping off a bottle of wine, make it meaningful:
- Show up at a hotel or B&B with a bottle of wine and a note tailored to them. Acknowledge a recent milestone, or just let them know how much you appreciate their support.
- Take your top referrers to lunch or invite them for a private tasting. This keeps you top of mind and strengthens the connection.
- Offer a small, thoughtful gift that aligns with their interests. It doesn’t have to be expensive—just personal.
Keep Track, Keep Growing
A successful referral network requires more than just goodwill, it requires organization. The eCELLAR referral tracking system helps you:
- Log where your guests are coming from and who is sending them.
- Track the financial impact of your referral relationships.
- Keep notes on personal details and past interactions to help you strengthen connections over time.
At the end of the day, Direct-to-Consumer sales may be your bread and butter but your referral network is your corner grocery store. Invest in your community, nurture those relationships, and they will continue to bring guests and revenue to your door.

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